Showing posts with label Aging. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Aging. Show all posts

Thursday, February 12, 2026

Peri Dragon - Slay that B#$%h

Well I appear to officially be a woman of a certain age.  I have been listening to podcasts, getting inundated with ADs for miracle cures for dealing with issues, reading all the things including recently a list of possible Perimenopause symptoms. Some of them are crazy and some just frankly are PISSING ME OFF!

I have been easing into perimenopause for a couple of years, with irregular cycles after almost 40 years of setting my calendar to my flow.  Crazy rage and snacking, weight gain like someone flipped a switch even though I haven't changed my diet or exercise (I mean 10 lbs in four months for fecks sake!)

Here is a list I came up with that have come and gone or come and stayed the last two years - from watching a video possible of peri symptoms:

  • Slower metabolism, fat and weight gain
  • Drier straighter hair
  • Body odor and more sweaty (like a teenage boy, gross)
  • Intermittent narcolepsy during the day
  • Sleep disruptions, more frequent bathroom runs at night
  • Hot flashes (mine are weird and mostly in my legs... probably an MS short) last night I had 5-6 in an hour while just hanging out watching the Olympics
  • Occasional night sweats
  • Vertigo
  • Brain fog, recalling/spelling words, mental sluggishness
  • Intermittent breast tenderness
  • Crazy flows, two a month, months without, heavy and long, short and spotty
  • Decreasing libido in an otherwise healthy sex life
  • Fatigue different from my MS fatigue
  • Random joint aches/stiffness like arthritis that come and go at random
  • Heal tightness/hug, only in one heal, like it is falling asleep, happens randomly and a challenge when it happens while walking or running
  • Changes in food sensitivities and intermittent acid reflux
  • Changes in appetite, metabolism and blood sugar spikes
  • Less stress resilient 
  • Greater anxiety at times
  • Crazy rage
  • Slower muscle recovery - pushing daily creatine and higher protein intake to counter this.
  • And intermittent blood pressure spikes.  Lately its been going crazy while exercising which led me to start doing research.  40+% of women in peri get these.  I found the article below and I am doing all the right things except HRT.  I am not even sure I will be able to take HRT as regular birth control fueled all the migraines when I was younger.
  • Misophonia - decreased tolerance for random sounds - easily overwhelmed by sounds https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/24460-misophonia I've always had some sounds I just can't tolerate but now I want violence to make it stop (don't worry I don't condone violence.)

https://www.healthline.com/health/menopause/understanding-the-connection-between-menopause-and-heart-rate-changes

I decided to do something really hard this year and that is working with a coach to train for an Ironman Triathlon (2.4 mile swim followed by a 112 mile bike and a 26.2 mile run/walk all in under 17 hours.)  I am in great shape and have been exercising regularly for over a year.  But this last couple of months Peri is kicking my arse and pissing me off.  My workout heartrates are going bonkers the last few weeks.  I've gained ten pounds.  

I'm dialing in my nutrition as I need a fair bit of the right calories to support the workouts and recovery.  I am doing weights a couple times a week as building muscle strength is so so important for anyone over 45 but especially if I want to build up speed and distance.

BUT I am super frustrated.  I'm on a mission for a good peri specialist (may look into midi.com).  I plan to reach out to my GP on the blood pressure spikes but I am 95% sure it is the Peri Dragon being a b$%^h.  I am not crazy, but my body is definitely a strange and foreign land.  What are your experiences? Who did you work with to manage things?  What did you have success with?  HELP.....

Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Another Year Older

Well, last Wednesday, May 25th was the first day of another year of my life.

Here is my annual birthday photo... not real spontaneous but you grab a photographer when you can get one. :)

So some reflections of the past year.... My body chemistry seems to be holding steady after several years of thyroid and adrenal bounces every few months. I have had numbers holding strong for 9 months now. I am pretty sure I can only attribute that to very carefully listening to my body. I try to respond appropriately when it tells me to slow down or gives me the thumbs up to charge ahead again.

I have more grey hairs (thank goodness for color in a box) and more wrinkles around my eyes and on my hands... just a sign of experience right? Oh and then there are the things that droop that no amount of exercise every really seems to get rid of...

On a positive note (not that the last information wasn't positive... its mostly just fact... and not much one can do about that...) I finally did my first Olympic Triathlon (not sure what that is... read some of my older posts)... I also did my second one even faster. Oh and then there was the 1/2 marathon... who would have though I would become a runner. Looking forward to my first 1/2 Ironman in 8 weeks... I love having fitness as part of my every day life and love that my daughter is embracing the joy of staying fit.

My kids... whew... we have had our ups and downs and really I am learning patience... patience with my kids when I have to ask them more than once to do something, and patience with my self when I don't handle their lack of compliance well. And then there is Joe... we actually had some dates this past year but life is really busy and we both know we need to make more time to love each other but we are pointed in the same direction together and so we continue to learn and grow together.

So really that is what another year brings me.... more reflection than I can cram in a blog but the knowledge that there is always another wonderful adventure around the corner, another lesson to learn, another challenge to try my patience and grow my confidence and so I start this new year with open arms and bigger goals and more love in my heart to share. Thanks for being on the journey with me...

My vanilla cream cake... It wasn't an ice cream cake but at least it had yummy chocolate icing. :)